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15 years ago I was happily married, with kids, went to the office everyday… I thought I had a full and rewarding life… and I felt very stuck.

Something important was missing. I began exploring, and step by step I reinvented my whole life in almost every area. I discovered mediation, life coaching, emotional intelligence, sacred sexuality, polyamory, healing kink, psychedelic therapy… so much of my healing came through my body, and this became the focus of my offerings to the world; words are helpful, but they were not enough for me.

I now spend my time with people that are ready to be touched, in their hearts, bodies, and souls. I am still exploring and expanding, and I invite you to create your own adventure of authenticity, intimacy, excitement, and fulfillment. We are NEVER too old for a new adventure!

They say life begins at 40…

Up until the age of 40, I had a very conventional life. I grew up in Toronto with old England traditions and values, excelled at racquet sports and sciences, went to university, got a job, got married to my university sweetheart, bought a house and had kids. Life was full.

And then life became overwhelming.

In the year 2000, I crashed. I had impossible expectations for myself, but I didn’t know it. My body said stop! I was prescribed anti-anxiety meds, but went looking for holistic solutions as well. I recognized that the problem was me. The stress was coming from the inside.

My journey of self-discovery had begun.

I slowly found my true self.

Meditation helped me discover my inner peace. Annual Buddhist retreats became a must for 7 years, as well as weekly meditations and even daily practice at times. It helped me become a better father and husband, and inspired me to look beyond my conditioned desire to climb the corporate ladder.

During these years of self-discovery, I rediscovered parts of me that wanted to come out and play. Whenever there was an opportunity to perform, I was often the author and director and actor. I loved making people laugh. It was then that I realized I was not longer in the right profession for the ‘new me’. I was now curious about what made people tick. After recovering from my stress attack, I wanted to help others deal with stress and find more meaning in their lives.

It was then that I realized I was not longer in the right profession for the ‘new me’. I was now curious about what made people tick. After recovering from my stress attack, I wanted to help others deal with stress and find more meaning in their lives.

I was finally free to be me.

I spent the next 4 years growing the courage to release my comfy corporate salary and find a new career. I completed 2 years of training to become a certified life coach, and worked with businesses on leadership development. Helping people and organizations become healthier was rewarding, and always taught me more about myself and how I wanted to grow. As I discovered my true desires and needs, I continued to cultivate my ideal life. Sadly my marriage did not survive the transition, but in the end this was the best choice for both of us.

I was set free to explore all the adventures that had just been fantasies in my head.

My story, my rules.

The last 7 years have been a fantastic ride of adventure, exploration, and expansion of my human experience and consciousness. I have been intentionally shedding all the conditioning I grew up with that I no longer want. I have deepened my connection with myself, healed more of my wounds, and become a more conscious and connected human with an intimate group of friends. As I continue to grow and expand, my needs are more fully met.

I no longer need to conform to the rules of others in order to feel safe. Now, I’m writing my own rules.

I am now truly a leader of my life, and I want to share that level of freedom and authenticity with you. I’m choosing to lead in the way that I want humans to evolve, with higher levels of authenticity and vulnerability, more self-awareness and self-expression, more emotional range and capacity, more connection to our bodies and nature.

I am doing my best to model a new way of being a remarkable human.

I would be happy to share this with you and learn about your curiosities and expansion. The invitation is extended…

Shall we embark on a new journey together?