I work with all bodies, all genders, all abilities, all diversities, all income levels.

My primary requirement is kindness, or the desire to be more kind.

My desire is to introduce more people to sensuality and healthy sexuality.

So… who am I?

Please, allow me to introduce myself.

I am Ernest Rewilder, a trained sacred intimate, sex & intimacy educator, and life coach. I am 6’ tall, slender, athletic, and a true nature lover. Perhaps more importantly, I enjoy the company of others, encouraging them to fulfill their hearts’ desires and live their fullest lives without inhibition or regret. I bring my fun-loving nature to everything I do, and invest my energy in adventures which fill me with pleasure and excitement. You could describe me as a heartfelt collaborator guiding people to step out of their comfort zones and re-discover their authentic self-expression.

I am a middle-aged gentlethem in a male body who has worked on myself for 25 years, to find my healing so that I can be fully present with my clients.

I often wear gender-nonconforming clothing (eg. dresses) to demonstrate how it’s ok to be different, to be free to express our authentic selves. Also, dresses are really comfy and sexy!

Trainings that have most influenced my style:

• Wheel of Consent, by Betty Martin

• The Body Electric School, Sacred Intimacy training

• Caffyn Jesse, Intimacy Educator program

• Human Awareness Institute

• Center for New Culture